Am I or the World is crazy?!....,

The question that haunts me always every day is Am I or the World is crazy? Sometimes people say I'm strange.!.., Am I or the one who critisize me is strange? Sometimes I'm even doubtful that if the problem is really with me.., For every activity we do, we're all confined to certain constraints, or Limitations that is been forcefully enforced upon us. Most of us.. stick to it and get used to this. But some of the rare, bravehearts I must say, Like me, :) feel diffcult to fit in to the so called 'system'.., The moment I feel, I cant fit into this system, the society becomes a difficult place for me to live.., :(

Irriatated at the indifference people have on me, weared out, mocked, completely criticised.., the society termed me as 'Abnormal'..., The next question that I have is if I'm abnormal, then what is 'Normal'?? And when I analysed thoroughly, I came with a conclusion that the so called 'Abnormal' is always better than the so called 'Normal'..,   All of U will think me I'm insane if I don't judge my stand.., I'm gonna list the points below that justifies that it is not the so called 'abnormal' me, who is sick, but it is the so called 'Normal' society that is sick.. :)    The so called normal people, (most among us are normal..,) will do the following..,

1. Being normal just means U forget who U are, and even wat u want.., U work .. work .. work..earn money.., strive for promotion, always want to prove ur wit and skills.., without realising tat all this will be of no use, at the end..,

2.) Spending 4 years of golden time and Money in Engineering,learning almost all arenas that range from digital communication, signal processing, electronic devices, Mathematical derivations, computer architecture, only to find yourself doing documentation work at the end which ultimately U could've done with school level knowledge..(Ofcourse, you earn money.., tats different.. :) ) Almost all of us living this life.., ;)

3.) Working for the sake of working from 9 to 5.., which ultimately we dont like , which dont give us any pleasure, ironically, and funnily we do like this in the hope of getting retired with heck a lot of money in hands and a own home in city limits.., at last living the luxury life.. Aren't we people are strange creatures, to live dreaming about retired life, when even tomorrow is not guarenteed??? :)

4.)  The people who says Am 'Abnormal', believe that 'Power is more important than money.., And money is more important than hapinness..,'  But I value hapiness more than Power and Money.., So if U call me Abnormal.., Its cool.. I agree ;)

5.) Comparing the real value of a person through his Car, home, bank balance, 5 digit salary.., Almost all the parents who seek for Groom/ Bride for their son/daughter possess this trait and they are 'normal'., Unfortunately, If there are some of the abnormal people like me, who have a 'normal' parents, then Our life is gonna be miserable.., :(

6.) The so called 'Normal' people never feel free to talk to strangers, They think except them, their friends and the people they know, all others are Bad people.. or dangerous, or may cause them some harm.., They always repel strangers.., They dont wanna get new friends.., meet new people, they wont even listen to new ideas.., believes.., They always carry huge load of ego in their heads that prevents them from speaking to anyone , and make them secluded..,  The ultimate secret of life is in realising that U came alone.. And U have to leave alone.., Ur friends, Ur family, are of no use.., Those abnormal people who realise this, always dont have ego/headweights..,

7.)  Getting married for the sake of doing it, having children to spend our stacked up money we've earned, spending for the children and wife just to showcase our financial status to the society, sticking to the marriage life, even after we realised that the 'Love has faded away long ago..' is all the traits of the so called 'Normal' people..,

8.) Keeping a smile on your lips even when you’re on the verge of tears. Feeling sorry for those who show their feelings. U normal people, are both a Director and an actor.., U have split personality I must say.., U betray ur own emotions.., U betray ur own wishes.., U fool urself.., I wont fool myself, and when I just let out my emotions, U call me 'Abnormal'..,

9.) Following fashion trends, no matter however uncomfortable or ridiculous  it may be.., Wearing sleeveless during cyclone and wrapping the face like a Al-Queda terrorist in Hot Sun.., :) This fashion has become common in India.., Though it's actual reason is to protect skin from allergies, it has been mostlydone just because it's a fashion.., :)

10.) Eating 3 times a day just for the sake of eating, even if you're not hungry..,

11.) Investing a lot of time in outlining your eye-lids, applying foundations, hair dyes, carefully choosing the lipstick color, Eating very carefully and delicately so that not to make the lipstick touch the tongue, carefully gelling the hair, Keeping french beard, Washing the face for 2 times a day and applying make up for the second time, ( I'm not saying all this are wrong.., Even I like to do sometimes.., )   And ....,          Not Even spending a fraction of time and care in caring about the Inner beauty.., i.e., The Mind.., The conscience.., :( This is one of the main factors I contradict from 'Normal' People..,

12.) Doing anything that offers u the best position in society.., Love always comes next..,
These are just the droplets of reason among the ocean of truth.., There are lot more reasons to justify my stand.., The most common trait which most of the 'Normal' people possess and which I ultimately hate is criticising anyone who tries to be different..,
So, atlast, I'm abnormal.., Whats in a name..? :) Let All call me by that way.., But I can proudly say, that I'm happier than all the 'Normal' people.., I'm contented.., I'm peacefull.., :)
Because I value 'Love' more than anything..,  My greatest asset is Love.. And I wanna be a Giver of Love.., And not a Begger of Love., :)

P.S: Everyone's blog post depends on their mood, and this post is based my current mood.., Even I stick to many of the above said 'system' and I'm normal in many ways.., :( But these are the way, I wanna Live the rest of the Life.., I'll atleast try.., :)